It’s not the cheeriest subject, but divorce figures look set to rise.
The period after Christmas and New Years always comes with a marked rise in divorce rate. Whenever a couple go through a divorce, it is life-changing event. As well as a source of emotional stress, it can be a huge drain on finances.
If you’ve come to the decision to end your relationship, be sure to read our tips below before calling in the lawyers. Following this advice will ensure that your divorce goes as smoothly – and cheaply – as possible.
1. Choose the right lawyer
Ideally a Resolution accredited specialist. Not only will they have the expertise required but Resolution’s code of practice promotes a constructive and non-confrontational approach amongst its membership.
2. Choose the right court
If you are a foreign national or have foreign property, then think carefully about what court you use. Speak to solicitors and figure out which court would be best for your needs. Even within England, there are regional differences and the London courts might not always be the best option. Beware of rushing into proceedings in England where there is foreign property to be considered.
3. Choose the right process
Court battles are not always inevitable or indeed desirable. Other dispute resolution models are available. Consider mediation or collaborative law – as well as being cheaper than a court battle, both offer a more dignified approach as well as self-determination. With the courts being opened up to the media, they also guarantee privacy. Above all, try everything to keep the arrangement of your separation civil and professional.
4. Close the joint account/cancel joint credit cards
It may seem an obvious point but the ‘misuse’ of joint accounts/credit cards by the other spouse is rarely taken into account when the court makes a division of assets. With the benefit of legal advice, agree a monthly contribution to expenses early on. However (depending on whether you are the payer or payee) be careful not to establish a status quo that is too high/low.
5. Don’t move out of the matrimonial home
In the current climate, sales can be slow to achieve and if the reluctant party is in situ this can cause a real problem. Another reason to try and keep the situation manageable with your partner.
6. Sever a joint tenancy/make a Will
If property is in joint names and passes automatically to spouse on death, then you should (through your solicitor) end the joint tenancy and give notice that you wish to own as tenants in common so that your share can be left by Will. Don’t forget to revise your Will as well.
Also remember (where appropriate) to change nominations under death in service benefits/life policies/pensions. However, seek financial advice before cancelling joint life policies/endowments as it may be expensive to obtain new cover and may be unnecessary if your policy is assigned to a mortgage which you are retaining.
7. Don’t forget child benefit/tax credits
The receipt of child benefit may not make a huge financial difference to some. However, if you have a shared care arrangement of one or more children, the recipient of the child benefit will ultimately be entitled to child maintenance from the other parent.
If you are the non-earner/lower earner and have a child in your care, claim child tax credits immediately on separation. Maintenance/financial support from the other spouse is ignored and tax credits can be worth hundreds of pounds a month.
8. Increase your pension contributions
Your income is assessed net of tax and pension contributions. However, those with rental properties need to be wary of child support arrangements as assessment can be made on eight percent of gross value of property, rather than actual taxable income.
If you have been the lower earner, make sure you check the value of your spouse’s second state pension (SERPs), as it can be shares and in some cases be worth thousands of pounds.
9. Instruct an IFA
Preferably an independent financial adviser who is Resolution trained or at least one who offers charging by fees as well as commission. Good IFAs add value when structuring financial settlements and can provide much needed guidance on future income needs, projection and budgeting. Unbiased is a great, completely independent portal for finding IFAs and lawyers and is well worth a look.
10. Don’t live with a new partner until your divorce is settled
Their income could be taken into account in the case of a settlement, meaning you could end up getting less.