I’m a big believer in having some of the finer things in life…in an affordable way.
Why shouldn’t you have nice things and luxury experiences here and there? There’s lots to be had and sometimes you can get them for free.
I’m going to be talking about it in a Periscope at 18:00 BST today (Tuesday) so join Periscope (for free), follow me (@Jasmine) and take part!
Here are a few of the things I do to get a bit of luxury for less.
Hanging out in hotels
I love posh hotels and I particularly love posh hotel lounges with their lovely big, comfortable sofas and chairs and pretty crockery.
I love afternoon tea in hotels (although I can’t usually manage it all) and occasionally will do a tea with friends as a party.
But that costs quite a lot so I don’t do it often. But what I can, and regularly do, do is to pop into a hotel to sit and read, work or just think with a pot of tea or hot chocolate.
In posh London hotels it usually costs between £4-6 for a pot of tea, coffee or chocolate, which is still quite a lot for a pot but in my opinion it’s cheap for the opportunity to sit in lovely surroundings, possibly being serenaded by a pianist or harpist, sitting in a very comfortable chair with lots of space around me and, probably, very good tea or chocolate.
You would be surprised how accessible these posh hotels are, particularly on a quiet Monday or Tuesday night, when you can have a whole corner of the lounge to yourself and no one bothers you.
I do something similar with cafes and restaurants. Eating out is expensive but often it’s just the action of going out that is the fun part of it. The food is an add-on.
So quite often I will have dinner at home and then go out for pudding or a cake with tea. I might meet friends in that way so we go out, we meet and we have a laugh but we don’t overspend on what we eat.
It’s a compromise but your bank balance will certainly be happier for it!
If you’re a regular on Moneymagpie you’ll know that we LOVE mystery shopping. It’s a brilliant way of getting free dinners, free hotel stays, free drinks in bars, free spa sessions…free you name it…just for reviewing it.
I’ve done it in the past and have had free sandwiches delivered, free lunches in gastro pubs and free dinners in pizza restaurants. It was a great way to get a bit of luxury for nothing, particularly when I was trying not to spend anything while paying off debts.
I know someone who loves gardening books so she set up a blog reviewing…gardening books. She has shelves and shelves of them now and is getting some cash from the advertising on her blog too. Cool.
I also know some mummy bloggers who are constantly going on press trips to places like Disneyland or Marbella, going on cruises or taking flights to New York in order to review the holidays. They’re having a whale of a time because they’re in such demand.
There are also beauty bloggers, music bloggers, theatre bloggers and more who are trying out a lot of good stuff for free. You can do it too by setting up your own blog on something that you love. The tricky part is getting the traffic but it can be done – see what we say about setting up a blog here.
Mixing posh with cheap
If I could buy designer all the time…I probably still wouldn’t!
I love good design and would certainly love to have more designer bits than I have, but there’s a LOT of cheap stuff that looks really good…particularly when it comes to jewellery.
If you mix the two you can get great looks, often for very little outlay.
Here are a few things I do:
- Hunt around charity shops – in fact, they often have stuff that is more interesting than the current styles…particularly when fashion is in one of its boring phases where it’s all black, white and taupe. You need to be determined with charity shops and, ideally, go to ones in posh areas as they have better stuff
- Cheap websites – it’s amazing how cheap things can be online now. I’ve been using Wish.com for bits an pieces recently – that’s really cheap but the sizes are small because it’s based in China. Also, of course, Amazon is brilliant for most things. See my ‘flash’ tattoos above (I’m sitting with my neighbour Nastya as we’ve just had our ‘tattoos’ put on) which are on sale on Amazon for £1.50-£4.50. Elsewhere they’re £20. Then of course eBay is a great help. I tend to have stuff up on the site for sale most months then I use the money I make on them, in my Paypal account, to buy other stuff online – often on eBay itself!
- Go to outlets – I’ll admit I don’t do this much as mostly I can’t be bothered shopping for that long, but every now and then, particularly if I’m on holiday, I’ll do some serious digging in an outlet village like Bicester, or I’ll spend a bit of time in a TKMax. You need a similar attitude to the charity shops – go and rummage with an open mind!
How do you get luxury for less? Let me know!